Husband Josep Maria Sert

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244 Rue de Rivoli, 75001 Paris, France
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3 Rue de Constantine, 75007 Paris, France
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Misia Sert (born Maria Zofia Olga Zenajda Godebska; 30 March 1872 – 15 October 1950) was a pianist of Polish descent who hosted an artistic salon in Paris. She was a patron and friend of numerous artists, for whom she regularly posed. Misia Sert had an enduring association with Coco Chanel, whom she met at the home of actress Cécile Sorel in 1917. Sert provided Chanel with the emotional support the bereaved woman needed following the death of her lover, Arthur Capel, on 22 December 1919, in an automobile accident. It is said that theirs was an immediate bond of like souls, and Sert was attracted to Chanel by "her genius, lethal wit, sarcasm and maniacal destructiveness, which intrigued and appalled everyone." Both women, convent bred, maintained a friendship of shared interests, confidences and drug use.[4][12][13] Madame Verdurinska, as Chanel nicknamed her, became an arbiter of taste and fashion, bringing together her friends just to set them against each other at a later date. The cream of Parisian society sought to be invited to her dinners and after-theatre suppers.

Maria Zofia Olga Zenajda Godebska was born on 30 March 1872 in Tsarskoye Selo, outside of Saint Petersburg, Russian Empire.[1] Her father, Cyprian Godebski was a renowned Polish sculptor and professor at the Imperial Academy of Arts in St. Petersburg. Her mother, Zofia Servais, of Russian-Belgian extraction, was the daughter of noted Belgian cellist, Adrien-François Servais. Aware of her husband’s propensity to engage in extra-marital affairs, a concerned, pregnant Zofia traveled to Tsarskoye Selo, where she surprised Godebski who was living with his current mistress.[2] Zofia Godebska died after giving birth to her daughter, thereafter called Misia, the Polish diminutive of the name Maria.[3] The infant was sent to live with her maternal Servais grandparents in Brussels.[3] It was a musical household which hosted concerts performed by noted musicians. Franz Liszt was a friend of the family.[3] It was in this environment that Sert received her musical education, her grandfather teaching her to read music while she was not much more than an infant.[2] Under his mentorship, she became a gifted pianist. Sert's father remarried several times, ultimately reclaiming his daughter and bringing her to live with him and her newest stepmother in Paris. Sert missed the ambiance of her grandparents’ home in Brussels. Her father placed her in a convent boarding school, the Sacre-Coeur, where she remained for six years, her only pleasure being the piano lessons she took one day a week as the student of the eminent Gabriel Fauré.[1] At age fifteen, an argument with her stepmother caused Sert to leave home and move to London, using borrowed funds.[1] After several months she returned to Paris, taking her own lodgings and supporting herself by teaching piano to students referred by Fauré.[1][2]

Misia by Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec, 1897

Misia Sert, by Pierre-Auguste Renoir

Sert portrayed on the cover of La revue blanche, by Toulouse-Lautrec

In 1893, at age 21, Sert married her twenty-year-old cousin-by-marriage, Thadée (Tadeusz) Natanson, a Polish émigré.[1] Natanson frequented the haunts favored by the artistic and intellectual circles of Paris. He became involved in political causes, championing the ideals of socialism, which he shared with his friend Leon Blum, and was a Dreyfusard. The Natanson home on the 9, Rue St. Florentine, near the Place de la Concorde, became a gathering place, for such cultural lights as Marcel Proust, Claude Monet, Pierre-Auguste Renoir, Odilon Redon, Paul Signac, Claude Debussy, Stéphane Mallarmé, and André Gide. The entertainment was lavish. Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec enjoyed playing bartender at Natanson's parties, and became known for serving a potent cocktail— a drink of colorful layered liqueurs dubbed the Pousse-Café.[4] All were mesmerized by the charm and youth of their hostess. In 1889, Natanson debuted La Revue blanche, a periodical committed to nurturing new talent and showcasing the work of the post-Impressionists, Les Nabis. The Natansons' country houses, La Grangettein Valvins (The Godebski family bought La Grangette, a country house in Valvins, near Fontainebleau, in 1874) and Le Relais in Villeneuve-sur-Yonne (bought by Misia and Thadée in 1897), served as annexes to the journal’s offices. Sert became the muse and symbol of La Revue blanche, appearing in advertising posters created by Toulouse-Lautrec, Édouard Vuillard and Pierre Bonnard.[2][5] A portrait of Sert by Renoir is now in the Tate Gallery.[6] Marcel Proust used Sert as the prototype for the characters of "Princess Yourbeletieff" and "Madame Verdurin" in his roman à clef À la recherche du temps perdu, (Remembrance of Things Past).[3][4]

Natanson’s La Revue blanche coupled with his political activism required an influx of capital, which he alone was unable to supply. Needing a benefactor, he approached Alfred Edwards, a newspaper magnate, the founder of the foremost newspaper in Paris, Le Matin. Edwards had become enamored with Sert and had taken her as his mistress in 1903. He would supply money, but only on the condition that Natanson relinquish his wife to him.[3] On 24 February 1905 Sert became the wife of Alfred Edwards.[1] The couple live at 244, rue de Rivoli, and rent a pied-à-terre at the Hôtel du Rhin, place Vendôme. Edwards has a 35 metre yacht built named Aimée (after the initials of Misia Edwards). Sert and her new husband took up an opulent lifestyle in their apartment on Rue de Rivoli, overlooking the Tuileries Palace. Here Sert continued welcoming artists, writers, and musicians in her home. Maurice Ravel dedicated Le Cygne (The Swan) in "Histoires naturelles" and La Valse (The Waltz) to her. Sert accompanied Enrico Caruso on the piano while the opera star entertained the assembled listeners with a repertory of Neapolitan songs.[4] In 1908 there was the first performance of Modest Mussorgsky's Boris Godounov at the Opera in Paris. It was probably here that Misia first met Sergei Diaghilev. In 1910 Misia introduced Jean Cocteau to Diaghilev. Edwards proved an unfaithful husband, and Sert divorced him in 1909.[1][7] In 1911, the accidental death of her rival for Edwards affections, the actress Geneviève Lantelme, was never explained. Edwards had fallen in love with Lantelme in 1906 and married her in 1910. On the borders of the panels painted for her apartment at 29, quai Voltaire, where she moved in 1911, Bonnard had fun with references to the wrangling between the two women over Misias pearls.

The middle of the 1910s was when it began her reign and fame as cultural arbiter, which lasted more than thirty years. Writer Paul Morand described her as a "collector of geniuses, all of them in love with her."[8] It was recognized that "you had to be gifted before Misia wanted to know you." It was in her salon, while listening to Erik Satie at the piano playing his iconic composition Trois morceaux en forme de poire, that the assembled guests were informed that World War I had begun.[4] In 1914 Germany declared war on France and Misia, accompanied by Cocteau, organised convoys of vehicles to go to the aid of the wounded at the front. In 1916 Misia moved to the Hôtel Meurice. In 1920, Sert married her third husband, Catalan painter Josep Maria Sert.[1][3] They had their honeymoon in Venice accompanied by Coco Chanel. This is when Misia and Sert introduce the young dress designer to Diaghilev. The Sert marriage was an emotionally tumultuous one. Her husband became involved with a member of the aristocratic Russian Mdivani family, Princess Isabelle Roussadana Mdivani, known as "Roussy". Sert tried to accommodate herself to the liaison her husband was having with another woman. She herself also entered into a physical relationship with Roussy. For some time the three sustained a ménage à trois.[9][10] Roussy lived with Sert and Misia at the Hôtel Meurice. However, they ultimately divorced on 28 December 1927.[1]

In 1928 Misia moved into a large apartment at 3, rue de Constantine, where she lived from 1928 to 1946. Sert's social set included bohemian elites and the upper levels of society. It was a libertine group, rife with emotional and sexual intrigues—all fueled by drug use and abuse.[11] Sert was generous and supportive to friends in need. She provided financial assistance to poet Pierre Reverdy when he needed funds to retreat to a Benedictine monastery in Solesmes. She had a long friendship and business association with Sergei Diaghilev and was involved in all creative aspects of the Ballets Russes[3] - from friendships with its dancers, to input on costume designs, to choreography. Through the years she supplied funds for the often financially distressed ballet company. On the opening night of "Petrushka", she came to the rescue with the 4000 francs needed to prevent repossession of the costumes. Almost blind by this time, and addicted to morphine, Misia undertook some most unlikely escapades to Venice where her gaunt figure and her elegance blended perfectly with the quaint charms of the city where her only true friend, Sergei Diaghilev died in 1929. When Diaghilev lay dying at the Grand Hôtel du Lido in Venice she was at his side and, after his death, paid for his funeral, honoring the man who had been such an important influence in the world of ballet.[4][14] She weathered the World War II Nazi occupation of Paris without serious condemnation of her character, unlike some of her social set whose wartime activities and allegiances were questionable if not damning.[4]

In 1945, the journalist and critic Boulos (Paul Ristelhueber), friend of Serge Lifar and Sert's secretary, becomes Misia's confidant: she recounts her memories, which are published after her death. Boulos supplied her with morphine and took drugs with her.  

Misia Sert died in Paris on 15 October 1950 at her home in rue de Rivoli.[1] After a ceremony at Notre-Dame-de-l'Assomption, the Polish church of Paris where Coco Chanel had prepared the body for the funeral, she was buried in the cemetery of Samoreau, in the same tomb as her niece, Mimi Blacque-Belair, who had died in a car accident in 1949.[3]

Sert is the subject of a musical, Misia, with lyrics by Barry Singer and set to the music of the late Vernon Duke. Singer wrote the first draft in 2001. It was released as a cast album by PS Classics in 2015. Interest was shown by Broadway producers, but it has not yet been produced on the stage.[15] The South-West Brabant Museum in Halle has a collection on her life.[16]

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