BURIED TOGETHER

Partner Charity Bryant, buried together

Queer Places:
Weybridge Hill Cemetery, Weybridge, VT 05753, Stati Uniti


Image result for Sylvia Drake Charity Bryant'''Charity Bryant''' (May 22, 1777 – October 6, 1851) was an American business owner and writer. She was a diarist and wrote acrostic poetry. Because there is extensive documentation for the shared lives of Bryant and her partner, Sylvia Drake (1784 – February 18, 1868), their diaries, letters and business papers have become an important part of the archive in documenting the history of same-sex couples.[1]

Charity Bryant was born on May 22, 1777 in North Bridgewater, Massachusetts to Silence (née Howard) and Phillip Bryant. Her mother died of consumption shortly after her birth. She was the sister of Peter Bryant (August 12, 1767 – March 20, 1820), a doctor and later a state legislator,[2] and the aunt of William Cullen Bryant. She was a descendant of Francis Cooke through her father's line.

In 1807, she went to visit a friend, in Weybridge, Vermont and met Sylvia Drake, her friend's sister. The two quickly became partners and worked together in a tailoring business, which allowed them to live together.[3] Their community, including their relatives, accepted them as a married couple.[4]

Drake discussed their relationship in her diaries: Tuesday- 3 [July]—31 years since I left my mother’s house and commenced serving in company with Dear Miss B. Sin mars all earthly bliss, and no common sinner have I been, but God has spared my life, given me every thing I would enjoy and now I have a space, if I improve it, to exercise true penitence.[5] Also Charity’s nephew, William Cullen Bryant, described their relationship: If I were permitted to draw the veil of private life, I would briefly give you the singular, and to me interesting, story of two maiden ladies who dwell in this valley. I would tell you how, in their youthful days, they took each other as companions for life, and how this union, no less sacred to them than the tie of marriage, has subsisted, in uninterrupted harmony, for more than forty years.

Charity and Sylvia are buried together at Weybridge Hill Cemetery, Addison County, Vermont.


  1. ^ cite web|last1=Albers|first1=Jan|title=Sylvia and Charity: a Vermont Love Story for the Ages|url=http://henrysheldonmuseum.org/sylvia-and-charity-a-vermont-love-story-for-the-ages/|website=Henry Sheldon Museum|publisher=Henry Sheldon Museum of Vermont History|accessdate=19 July 2017|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20170630085740/http://henrysheldonmuseum.org/sylvia-and-charity-a-vermont-love-story-for-the-ages/|archivedate=30 June 2017|location=Middlebury, Vermont|date=2015
  2. ^ cite web|title=William Cullen Bryant|url=http://plainfieldmahistory.org/genealogy/william-cullen-bryant/|website=Plainfield Historical Society|accessdate=18 July 2017|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20160127070452/http://plainfieldmahistory.org/genealogy/william-cullen-bryant/|archivedate=27 January 2016|location=Plainfield, Massachusetts|date=2015
  3. ^ cite news|last1=Kaplan|first1=Sarah|title=The improbable, 200-year-old story of one of America’s first same-sex ‘marriages’|url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2015/03/20/the-improbable-story-of-one-of-americas-first-same-sex-marriages-from-over-200-years-ago/|accessdate=19 July 2017|publisher=''The Washington Post''|date=March 20, 2015|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20170719000244/https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2015/03/20/the-improbable-story-of-one-of-americas-first-same-sex-marriages-from-over-200-years-ago/?utm_term=.0061f534a9a1|archivedate=19 July 2017|location=Washington, D. C.
  4. ^ cite news|last1=Onion|first1=Rebecca|title=Same-sex marriage in the 19th century|url=https://www.bostonglobe.com/ideas/2014/06/13/uncommon-household-the-history-early-american-same-sex-marriage/oGJ3H6xZtluQUhvdJnR94M/story.html|accessdate=19 July 2017|publisher=''The Boston Globe''|date=13 June 2014|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20170322042202/http://www.bostonglobe.com/ideas/2014/06/13/uncommon-household-the-history-early-american-same-sex-marriage/oGJ3H6xZtluQUhvdJnR94M/story.html|archivedate=22 March 2017|location=Boston, Massachusetts
  5. ^ Sylvia Drake’s Diary, 1838