Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Boston, MA
New York University, NYC, NY
Robert J. Kadel (December 14, 1927 - 1987) attended the Lawrenceville
Preparatory School in Lawrenceville, N.J. (1941-1945), obtained a bachelor
of science degree in biology and chemistry from the Massachusetts Institute
of Technology (1950) and a bachelor of law degree from New York University
in 1957. He graduated first in his class at Officers Candidate School and
served in the Air Force from 1950 to 1955. From 1958 to 1979, he practiced
law with the firm of Pennie and Edmonds at 330 Madison Avenue, New York,
He recalled suffering vision problems as a child and compensating by excelling in physical fitness pursuits (weight-lifting and running). He later realized that he had a photographic memory which allowed him to cram on the night before tests or trials and leave much other time free for travel.
He modelled for the John Robert Powers agency during law school and was featured in Mennen's Skin Bracer advertisements internationally in 1957.
He traveled frequently to Italy, Puerto Rico and elsewhere.
He became a full partner in Pennie and Edmonds in 1966, and represented numerous large corporations, doing litigation and interference type legal work. He resigned from the firm in March, 1979 to take a "mid-life sabbatical".
Datebook entries in 1987 indicate he suffered frequent fever and many illnesses and a concern regarding HIV infection. Final entry is dated September 16, 1987. Date of death is not indicated. The donor of his papers to the LGBT Center in New York indicated in an interview on June 20, 1996, that Kadel died of AIDS. He recalled Kadel as being an "amazing man" -- very good-looking, having an intuitive quality that allowed him to get close to others with great ease. He retired early and lived simply, taking enjoyment in small things, hence notes of satisfaction regarding things eaten, etc. He took great pleasure in his ability to calm people down. He further remembered Kadel as being very active sexually, sometimes having assignations by appointment at half-hour intervals, yet without alienating any of his partners over the years.
His papers are held at The Center, the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center in New York City. This collection, comprising of annual datebooks of Robert J. Kadel from 1955 to 1987, was donated by a friend of Kadel, who met Kadel on the Villa Borghese in Rome in 1959 when the former was in medical school in Rome. The pair had a brief romantic affair and thereafter were best friends and close confidants through the remainder of Kadel's life.